…ation (#34394)

The compiler currently drops manual memoization and rewrites it using
its own inference. If the existing manual memo dependencies has missing
or extra dependencies, compilation can change behavior by running the
computation more often (if deps were missing) or less often (if there
were extra deps). We currently address this by relying on the developer
to use the ESLint plugin and have `eslint-disable-next-line
react-hooks/exhaustive-deps` suppressions in their code. If a
suppression exists, we skip compilation.

But not everyone is using the linter! Relying on the linter is also
imprecise since it forces us to bail out on exhaustive-deps checks that
only effect (ahem) effects — and while it isn't good to have incorrect
deps on effects, it isn't a problem for compilation.

So this PR is a rough sketch of validating manual memoization
dependencies in the compiler. Long-term we could use this to also check
effect deps and replace the ExhaustiveDeps lint rule, but for now I'm
focused specifically on manual memoization use-cases. If this works, we
can stop bailing out on ESLint suppressions, since the compiler will
implement all the appropriate checks (we already check rules of hooks).

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